outcomes

you can’t control them, only the action that helps create it.

when I find myself on the dance floor, I keep in mind that I have absolutely NO control over my partner -not realistically.

the moment I begin a movement, the outcome is out of my hands. I control nothing but my own action. not the music, not my partner, and  not the outcome of anything I do.

make this your dance lesson of the week: the outcome of any movement is out of your control. you control what goes in, but not what comes out.

try to stress a little less out there on the dance floor, relinquish your attachment to the outcome, which, is most certainly out of your control.

focus on what you put in, which is most certainly under your control.